For a straight woman to dream of sapphic love indicates a desire to change romantic habits. Nothing drastic is intended--it could be as simple as asking your partner to sleep on the other side of the bed. When a man dreams of lesbians, it represents a chance for rewards based on tolerant attitudes. Now is definitely not the time to act bossy. When the dreamer is a lesbian herself, the meaning is simple: Romantic needs are at the forefront.