Psychologically: If one is hardly ready to help others (or the actual helplessness of a person to own advantage uses), one gets not seldom in the dream 'the other side' presented: One experiences himself in a hopeless situation from which one can escape only more with the help of other. No nightmare, but a tip to think over own position on this subject. Popular: (arab).: be: Do not count on foreign help, undertake itself something, then you succeed.